The Luxe Letter is for people who know they want a more satisfying experience of life.
Maybe you’re going through a big change or level up.
Maybe being a high performer actually feels awful and something has to change ASAP or you’ll actually snap.
Or perhaps work is on fire but at home you wish things were different.
All of that, none of that— something else, better than we can actually imagine now.
All of them sound interesting to me.
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Who the heck am I?
I’m Elizabeth Stone, a transformative coach who helps people create the richest, most loved and satisfying lives possible.
I will use this space to explore things that don’t fit neatly into a checklist or some forced idea of progress.
In fact, if someone gave me a checklist, I would probably ignore the checklist and look around at the people in the room.
I bring over a decade of experience in coaching people through most life circumstances you can think of– creating and nurturing new love, divorce, business, money, and relationship repair (a soft spot).
Lots of relationship repair. More about that later.
Here are 3 promises I can make you:
1. This is a bullshit free zone.
I promise to do my best to keep everything as bullshit free and simple as possible.
What I share is the clearest, truest version I can offer at the time.
Sometimes I change my mind. Sometimes I get it wrong.
I’ve shared over a million words online in the past 15 years— some of it I still stand by. Some of it I don’t.
If something I said once makes you want to throw your phone into traffic, fair enough. Discard what does not resonate.
Snatch what sparks insight like you’re an Olympic hopeful competing for gold.
2. This is not a shame farm.
I intend for you to feel more hopeful, evolved and clear after you experience my work, not worse about yourself or your life.
This is my art and I prefer power over force.
This is not– and never will be– a shame farm.
Shame is emotional junk food.
Using shame as core motivation is like running your Ferrari on moonshine.
Workable for a few minutes in a pinch but the end result will be hot, hard, dirty and eventually burn you out.
If you want shame-based coaching, go find one of those intense coaches with big teeth who want you to throw your hands in the air and shriek “yeah!” while demanding that you optimize everything. Their way.
That’s not me.
If I’m in that kind of room at all, I’m probably sitting in a balcony box seat wearing whatever the heck I want, enjoying some deep conversation or spirited people watching.
I’m probably also sipping homemade iced tea with the lights at a nice, comfortable warm level.
You are not broken, you don’t need renovation or fixing. You aren’t a victim who requires eggshell dancing through life.
That brings me to this:
3. Freedom and wisdom are the core values here.
Metaphorically, I eat my own cooking and will not waste your time with suggestions I don’t value personally and professionally.
Freedom is the ultimate luxury and that’s how I choose to live.
The voice of wisdom speaks to all of us.
Listening to this wisdom— no matter how inconvenient, strange or impractical it sounded at the time— has never failed me.
When your arms have gotten tired from all the manipulative hand raising and your Ferrari has gone kaput from it’s last injection of shame-flavored moonshine, that’s when you might be ready for me.
Here’s what I cover here:
Artfully creating leverage so you have more time, energy and resources
Useful insights about the human experience
Creativity for fun and profit
How desire actually works— and how to stop sabotaging yours
Optimal love, dating, and connection
The difference between performance and presence
Power and the art of being unforgettable
Metaphysics, but without all the trendy over-complications and drama
Whatever else seems interesting and helpful in the moment
This is not a space for the trendy, the cheap, the boring or the needlessly complicated.
It’s not for assholes and/or people who want to argue about dogma or trauma.
It could be for you if you already realize you aren’t made for some repetitive, boring sleepwalk through life.
And away we go.
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If you’re feeling stuck, take The Mirror Assessment— A simple five minute diagnostic that reflects the pattern currently hijacking your attention so you can stop pouring energy into the wrong fix.
Don’t waste your time and energy fixing a bunch of stuff that doesn’t matter.
It’s free. Get immediate results here.
