This was beautiful to read. I'm so thankful that you chose to share this experience with your readers. This is definitely a growth edge for me personally, but I loved seeing how easy and "effortless" it really can be.
I’ve absolutely loaded up the dynamite before. Practiced the whole thing in my head. (Maybe even recently) Thinking about it, it is usually just a desire to be seen, to be met, heard, touched like it matters. His response was amazing.
I don’t know if I’m ready to stop walking off cliffs yet. But reading this made me want to be 🖤
Aww thank you and now you have it in your back pocket for later.
It’s uncanny how it’s always that same desire. Whether it’s about someone not doing the dishes enough or proposing on a hill top, that’s usually all anyone is upset about at its heart. It’s not the dishes, or whatever. It’s almost always Do you see me? Do you care? Do I matter? Did you bother?
Cliff diving is already part of your resume, I think the skill has been nailed down. 🖤
Yes! That's a brilliant way to put it. A deep seated, probably universal desire to be seen and thought of. "Do I matter?" has always been a really core, painful question for me in past relationships. That's for damn sure.
I'd like to think I've nailed it down. Why do you think I moved to the mountains? 😂
This was beautiful to read. I'm so thankful that you chose to share this experience with your readers. This is definitely a growth edge for me personally, but I loved seeing how easy and "effortless" it really can be.
Thank you so much. I’m so glad you found it useful.
There was a time when I definitely wouldn’t allow anything to be this easy and effortless but I enjoy this so much more.
That’s incredibly mature of him, seriously. Glad to see it all worked out so beautifully in the end.
Thank you! I appreciate your comment.
I agree, it was such a disarming and perfect response.
Damn, wish I’d read this before the call!
I’ve absolutely loaded up the dynamite before. Practiced the whole thing in my head. (Maybe even recently) Thinking about it, it is usually just a desire to be seen, to be met, heard, touched like it matters. His response was amazing.
I don’t know if I’m ready to stop walking off cliffs yet. But reading this made me want to be 🖤
Aww thank you and now you have it in your back pocket for later.
It’s uncanny how it’s always that same desire. Whether it’s about someone not doing the dishes enough or proposing on a hill top, that’s usually all anyone is upset about at its heart. It’s not the dishes, or whatever. It’s almost always Do you see me? Do you care? Do I matter? Did you bother?
Cliff diving is already part of your resume, I think the skill has been nailed down. 🖤
Yes! That's a brilliant way to put it. A deep seated, probably universal desire to be seen and thought of. "Do I matter?" has always been a really core, painful question for me in past relationships. That's for damn sure.
I'd like to think I've nailed it down. Why do you think I moved to the mountains? 😂
This was super informative and helpful. I am going to be keeping this in mind
Thank you so much, I really appreciate it. Glad to hear you found it useful.